In April, scientists discovered what they believed to be the
oldest known jewelry, appearing some 30,000 years before previous
estimates of the origins of culture. Not having pragmatic or
survival-oriented purpose, the recently discovered jewelry, experts
assume, demonstrates that humans had an early interest in adornment,
beautification, and ornamentation. From an astrological point
of view, we might assume that this recent discovery suggests
that signs of the astrological Venus were alive and well even
in the most primitive stages of human history.
In astrology, Venus is the culture bringer. Although not responsible
for mass evolution in cultures and societies, Venus is the astrological
symbol that refines, beautifies, and brings style and sophistication.
Venus brings with her the development of individual taste and
preferences. Living in survival mode, the associations of Venus
would have very little bearing in life, but with increasing upward
mobility and more leisure, the style and preferences associated
with Venus have a tremendous bearing on modern living. Venus
is the part of our psyche that asks: “What image do I want
to portray? What do I value in life? What gives me pleasure?
Do I like this or do I like that?” Venus may or may not
bring loads of meaning or depth into one’s life, but it
is essential for bringing pleasure, materialistic and relationship
well-being, and self-esteem into one’s life.
Venus in aspect to other planets in the birth chart is a good
indication of what we value, what we desire, what sort of style
we exude, our aesthetic tastes, and, perhaps most notably, what
sort of romantic relationships we will tend to partake in. We
might think of the online profiles for dating websites as giving
conscious expression to how our Venus functions in our life.
Through these profiles we answer what sort of dates we find pleasurable,
what we are looking for in a romantic partnership, what we do
for fun and free time, What music we like, and what entertainment
we enjoy—all facets of Venus. Certainly, other factors
are very important for compatibility, but Venus is quite crucial.
The following brief profiles gives a sense of the variability
of Venus through aspects it makes in the birth chart. The archetypal
expression of the planet aspecting Venus will certainly incline
one’s tastes, attractions, desires, and value system. Aspects
to Venus may not show if one prefers vanilla to chocolate; however,
it is a rather important factor for what we want in a partnership,
our sense of style, how we handle money, what is attractive,
and how we act in relationship.
Venus in Aspect to Jupiter: Epicureans, the High Life, and
Popularity
When
Venus forms a significant aspect to Jupiter in the birth chart,
the pleasure principle is highly
operative in one’s
life. Webster’s Dictionary defines “epicurean” as “ fond
of or adapted to luxury or indulgence in sensual pleasures.” Certainly,
bearers of Jupiter-Venus aspects are epicureans and lovers
of the high life. Possessors of Jupiter-Venus aspects can teach
the rest of us in the fine art of entertaining and style, but
they may need to learn how to control excessive indulgence
in
what they find pleasurable. There is also an inclination of
Jupiter-Venus carriers to be driven towards popularity, likeability,
and to
be part of the in-crowd. The innate charm and friendliness
of these individuals often make them well-liked, if not admired.
Example I: Jennifer Anniston
The highly successful star of the sitcom Friends enjoys her
Venus in opposition to Jupiter. Anniston is able to balance
a girl-next-door
amiableness and charm with the refined high tastes and what
many consider impeccable style. In the 1990’s, Anniston defined
the “look” for aspiring twentysomethings who yearned
for her popularity. Anniston’s appeal and agreeable charisma
were key ingredients for Friends’ phenomenal success.
Example II: Dennis Kozlowski
You may not recognize the name, but you will remember the
case. Kozlowski was the recently indicted former CEO of Tyco
International.
Not unlike scenes taken from Citizen Kane, Kozlowski’s
life was the epitome of rags to riches to rages again. Although
being a highly shrewd and competent businessman, Kozlowski’s
fatal flaw was his extreme appetite for excess and luxury—a
trait that would ultimately undermine his accomplishments
and successes as a businessman. Born with a triple conjunction
between
the Sun, Venus, and Jupiter, Kozlowski had a swollen need
for wild extravagance and unchecked spending for opulence.
Kozlowski “borrowed” liberally
from his company to avoid high rates of taxation, buying
$6000 shower curtains and $2000 wastebaskets. However, Kozlowski’s
most damning moment was the public release of video footage
of an over-the-top, lavish birthday party for his wife. An
homage
to the orgiastic celebrations of ancient Rome, the birthday
party featured gladiators, exquisite ice castles, and pyrotechnics
and fanfaire a la Cirque de Soleil. Kozlowski’s actions
represent the excessive greed and fraudulence of postmodern
capitalism and the shadow side of the Venus-Jupiter combination.
Although
Oscar Wilde said, “Nothing succeeds like excess,” in
this case, nothing of high excess truly succeeds.
Venus
in Aspect to Saturn: Refinement and the Down Side of love
If
Jupiter-Venus aspects symbolize a surplus of desire, pleasure,
and relational needs, Saturn-Venus contacts often
correlate
with the polar opposite—a retrenchment or withdrawal
from the pleasure principle. Saturn-Venus contacts don’t
necessarily translate into a lack of love, friendship,
or pleasure, but there
is often a cautionary stance or prudence toward relationships
and materialism. The Saturn-Venus aspect can often give
the carrier a hard won civility, grace, and poise that
other aspects don’t
display. Thus, the critical nature of Saturn can actually
be used to help hone and refine one’s personal aesthetics
and tastes. If, however, the Jupiter-Venus aspect can be
guilty of excessive opulence and overindulgence, the Saturn-Venus
combination
can be accused of wallowing in the melancholic aspects
of relationships and fixating on the more dour and gloomy
aspects of intimacy.
Example: Frank Sinatra
Born with a Venus-Saturn opposition, we see in Sinatra
two manifestations of the planetary combination: endurance
and
somberness toward
love. Enduring the rise and fall of many popular music
fads, Sinatra’s music had tremendous staying power.
For nearly sixty years, Sinatra stayed true to his crooner
roots, establishing
his reputation as an American icon. This classicism and
durability is a hallmark of any Saturn aspect, and it
helped Sinatra achieve
an extraordinary legacy in the world of entertainment
(Venus). Beyond this stalwart durability, we also see
in Sinatra a facility
and attraction toward lamenting the downside of relationships.
In what many Sinatra aficionados call his best album, In
the Wee Small Hours is a collection of somber, reflective
lamentations about love. On this recording, we hear Sinatra’s
respects to the lonely man, broken and callous from the
ways of love.
In a similar recording, Sinatra’s rendering of
the song “Love
and Marriage” is the classic cautionary, if not
cynical, tale about long-term relationship (and theme
song for the ultimate
Saturn-Venus sitcom, Married with Children).
Venus
in Aspect to Uranus: Trendsetters and Chameleons
Venus-Saturn
bearers are classicists and traditionalists; they
create and define the establishment in terms of style and proper
decorum, critiquing that which fails to live up to their standards.
In reaction to this, Uranus-Venus birth charts bring in much
needed experimentation, boldness, daring, and youthful creativity
to style, tastes, and romance. Leave it to these individuals
to be the avant garde in popular trends in fashion, entertainment,
and etiquette. The experimentalism and creativity that these
individuals are predisposed toward can lead to major flops
and faux pas on the one hand, or stunningly novel statements
that
create all the rage in fashion, the arts, and entertainment.
It is the nature of Uranus-Venus individuals to be horribly
confined and bored with the status quo and in need of radical
makeovers
and rebellions from time to time.
Example I: Cher
Very few people can forget Cher’s multiple Academy Award
fashion shockers that stunned the entertainment world and earned
her a number of worst dressed list nominations. Born with a Uranus-Venus
conjunction in Gemini, it is in Cher’s nature to reinvent
and rebel against convention—even her own. From Native American
princess, fitness queen, and glam and glitz pop diva, Cher has
exerted an independent, campy irreverence to her style and chic.
However, Cher’s most successful reinvention came not in fashion
but through her music. In her fifties, Cher decided to once again
focus on her singing career, scoring big with the #1 “Believe,” underscored
with a techno and electronic feel (another quality of Uranus as
coupled with Venus).
Example II: Prince
Contestably, Prince gets the vote for all-time artistic reinvention.
Prince Nelson dropped his one word moniker for a symbol that
bared the lingual translation of “The artist formerly known
as Prince.” How’s that for bizarre? Nevertheless,
born with a tight Uranus square to Venus, Prince is prone to
display
the outlandish, unconventional, and simply unprecedented behavior
of a significant Uranus aspect. Questionable reinvention aside,
Prince displays some of the best attributes of a Uranus-Venus
aspect: aesthetic flair and brilliance, a flashy and provocative
style,
and an undeniably radiant and dazzlingly creative spirit.
Venus
in Aspect to Neptune: Glamour and the Romantic Ideal
With
Venus in aspect to Neptune, the lower and higher octaves of love
connect.
Venus and Neptune are the pairing that are often
most affiliated with the image of beauty: glamour, cosmetics,
and fashion photography. With Venus-Neptune aspects searching
for the ideal—or becoming idealized—can be a large
psychological priority. Although the notion that Venus-Neptune
aspects lead one to becoming an arch romantic, there is also
a decadent and indulgent quality to the aspect. The pleasure
principle of a Venus-Neptune aspect can become extremely captivating
and enchanting, compelling one to loose one’s sense of
discernment and judgment. Among the caveats of the Neptune-Venus
aspect are penchant for losing one’s self in relationship—to
be intoxicated by the state of love. With Neptune in aspect to
Venus, love holds the extremely addictive and alluring capacity
of being able to reunite with lost aspects of self.
Example: Leonard Bernstein
The preeminent conductor and popularizer of classical music
for the United States in the twentieth century, Leonard Bernstein
led
a high profile glamorous life in the circles of the New York
social elite. Born with a conjunction between Venus and Neptune,
Bernstein
demonstrated the highest and lowest potentials of the combination.
The Venus-Neptune combination can grant an incredibly gifted
and nuanced ability in the arts, and such was the case with
Bernstein.
His compositions and conducting demonstrated a lyricism and subtly
rarely matched; his musical accompaniment to West Side Story’s “Somewhere” is
highly indicative of the romantic longing and need for merger that
this combination can manifest. However, Bernstein also indulged
in some of the more problematic circumstances of the planetary
pairing. Second perhaps only to Andy Warhol, Bernstein was the
famous celebrity that was heralded by New York’s party crop.
Over time, partying caught up with the famous conductor as drugs
and alcohol contributed to his relatively early death.
Venus in Aspect to Pluto: Demon Lovers and Deep Relationship
When in aspect to Pluto, Venus's desire nature and relational
style is typically rendered intense, deep, and potentially
possessive and controlling. Arguably the most passionate
and subterranean
of the relational styles associated with Venus, this pairing
can
create heat as well as jealousy and self-destructiveness.
In order to understand the pairing better, we turn to individuals
born with
the pairing to understand the style of this intense planetary
combination.
Example I: Glenn Close
Born with Venus opposite Pluto (with Pluto rising, no less)
Close's roles often feature the intense, obsessive, even
sadistic side
of the Pluto-Venus interface. In one of the most popular
films of the 1980s—and arguably responsible for a temporary spike
in relationship fidelity—Close starred as the notorious
Alex Forrest in Fatal Attraction, the very definition of
the jealous,
vengeful lover. Close's rendering of a sexy, but highly
dangerous and murderously possessive lover is the character
study and
template for Venus-Pluto phenomena. Although Alex may be
her most infamous
role, Close has attracted several of the demon lover-type
roles through her life, as her birth chart suggests that
she has
a psychological predisposition for rendering an authenticity
to these portrayals.
Example II: Jeremy Irons
With a Venus-Pluto conjunction in Leo, Irons brings a high
level of British sophistication and nuance to the seductiveness
of
the Venus-Pluto phenomenon. In films like Damage and Lolita,
Irons
explores taboo relationships—often a predisposition
of the Venus-Pluto bearer. In films like Reversal
of Fortune (co-starring
aforementioned Glen Close), Irons plays the notorious Claus
von
Bulow, the subject of one of the more mysterious murder
cases in recent decades.
Birth Data:
Jennifer Anniston: February 11th, 1969
Dennis Kozlowski: November 16th, 1946
Frank Sinatra: December 12th, 1915
Cher: May 20th, 1946
Prince: June 7th, 1958
Leonard Bernstein: August 25th, 1918
Glenn Close: March 19th, 1947
Jeremy Irons: September 19th, 1948
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